Through the perspective of a university student from Russia studying in the United States, the latest episode of Moving Countries 101 showcases invaluable insights for parents of potential international students. For many parents, the thought of their child moving abroad for higher education brings a mix of excitement and concern. Navigating the complexities of a different culture and educational system, along with the emotional toll of being away from home, are significant factors to consider.
Clare Kay and her guest, Venji Bobovnikov have a heartfelt conversation exploring the profound impact of redefining the concept of home. Venji’s family played a pivotal role in creating a sense of stability amidst the uncertainties of living away from home, and he reflects on the privilege of having strong family support throughout his journey.
Venji recognizes that not all students are as fortunate, as some parents may struggle to understand the appeal of studying abroad. Acknowledging the financial and emotional burdens parents bear, and that every family’s situation is unique, Venji offers a simple yet profound piece of advice: listen to your children. He emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding. Together, Clare and her guest challenge parents to introspect on their concerns and consider whether they would feel less anxious if their child stayed closer to home. Venji suggests that the essence of worry remains constant, regardless of physical distance.
Venji underscores for the international student the importance of maintaining an open mind when adjusting to a new environment, revealing, “It’s easy to feel a little bit other.” He cautions against a divisive ‘me versus them’ mentality and encourages giving others the benefit of the doubt, which can lead to rewarding relationships and personal growth. However, he also advises being aware of a threshold where discernment is necessary to recognize genuine wrongdoing.
Their conversation delves into the complexities tied to Venji’s temporary residency. While he feels settled and enjoys his academic pursuits and personal connections in the United States, the looming reality of his student visa’s expiration presents an undeniable challenge. Venji shares the opportunity of the Optional Practical Training (OPT), which provides a critical bridge between academia and professional life, shedding light on the pragmatic approach necessary to navigate immigration policies while making the most of educational and professional opportunities abroad.
Venji’s experience serves as a testament to the transformative power of studying abroad, the emotional resilience required to thrive in a foreign country and the invaluable life lessons and personal growth that come from stepping out of one’s comfort zone.
About Moving Countries 101 Podcast:
Moving Countries 101 is a podcast dedicated to exploring the lives and experiences of individuals who have made significant moves across the globe. Hosted by Clare Kay, the podcast aims to inspire and inform listeners and viewers about the challenges and rewards of living a life in different countries.
It’s a must-follow for anyone who is interested in or is planning on living and working overseas.
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https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/moving-countries-101/id1724940782
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https://open.spotify.com/show/4cxcZ9rbrvZ6A0B6UPMaXj
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